silver4's Diaryland Diary ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- assholes so i was on plentyoffish.com just checking out the online dating for a possible extra round of attempted dating. when lo and behold i come across the image and profile of my sister's boyfriend. who she lives with. who she's been dating for over 10 years. according to his profile, he is single of course. no pets (they have a cat), he's an audio engineer (wannabe rapper who works in the mall i believe)... then all this other stuff that basically describes who he really is, aside from the fact that he lives with his girlfriend. so i was like ummm wtf... and i asked my friend how i should go about telling sis. i sent her a couple simple texts, asking if she was busy, and no response for like 3 or 4 hours. her phone was in her purse so she missed my messages, and was like what's up are you okay? i tell her what i saw, and i had taken a screenshot of it on my phone as proof. i told her the name of the profile and she said yep that's his email. plus the pictures posted were the same off of his facebook, so i'm not paranoid. so she told me she was going to call him, and i told her to call me back. she was understandably pissed. so she lives 5 minutes away from me, and she called me back after a while and said she was on her way, and wanted to see it. it was on my phone, she took the phone and bitched him out. he claimed first that it wasn't him. and then that it was his coworker who did it, who had a crush on him and made up the profile. yet right after sis called his lame ass out on it, the profile was edited and basically different, but still had some of the same things. so obviously he changed it (or... the "girl" did) because his lame ass had something to hide. so obviously they are having a fight, she said that either he needs to move out or she will, that she is done, and thanked him for wasting her time. naturally, the guy most likely hates me right now. i know that i am not the most moral person, but i've never been a cheater. i believe that if you are going to be deceitful, just end the damn relationship. yes, i know, i myself have hooked up with the wrong people who should've ended their relationships before involving themselves with me, but whatever. i've never fucked up, it's the guys who have. i'm actually really nervous of the situation. i just want my sister to stay at my place tonight but she is off to work. hopefully she changes her mind. and hopefully her (ex?)bf isn't a complete douche and doesn't act out. people can be really stupid. ______________ i am losing more and more faith in relationships. or maybe just men. except i don't want to generalize... i know there are some good ones out there. but still. 9:38 p.m. - 2012-05-19 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
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